Before we start with etiquette, it's important to remember that dancing is social. You're in close contact with your partner (if you're doing it right, that is) and there are some items you need to keep in mind that don't relate strictly to the steps. Think of these as "social steps." Most people think they understand all of this already but the fact that we've set aside a whole section of our web site for this tells you how important this topic is. Keep in mind that they are general and sometimes won't apply (except for the tips on grooming, of course). Use your judgment and be considerate. One of the great attractions of the dance floor is that it is a last bastion of civility in an increasingly uncivil world. Please help to keep it that way. Enjoy!

Your Attitude: Do you know who is responsible for you having a good time at the dance? No, it's not the DJ, the instructor, the club, the bartender, the waitress, or anybody else. It's your responsibility. Everyone wants you to have a good time but you won't if you don't bring the right attitude. Come in a good mood. After all, the dance floor is the perfect place to leave the cares of the outside world outside the door. Come and have fun. Your worries will still be there--outside the door--when you leave. You can pick them up on the way out.
Grooming--if you think you don't need this, you do!
How to ask someone to dance--hint, "It's easier than it was in high school!"
How to treat Dance Instructors, DJs, Hosts--nicely
Dealing with Significant Others, Dates--respectfully
Things to Avoid
Miscellaneous Tips
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